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I’m Sunni and My Boyfriend Is Shia, How We Built a Life Together as a Gay Couple in India
This love story began with a flashmob… It was 2021. We were planning our second queer flashmob in Lucknow, bright, bold, and full of...

Shams Tabrez
May 30, 20253 min read


Coming Out at Work: How I Told My Crush I Was Gay, and He Didn’t Walk Away
It was my first job. The office had two gates, one at the front and one at the back. I was walking in through the back gate when I saw...

Shams Tabrez
May 30, 20254 min read


I Left a Suicide Note to Come Out to My Father, Now I’m Living as My True Self
Born into a conservative Muslim family in Varanasi, my life and choices were always dictated by society and its norms. Growing up, I felt...

Shams Tabrez
May 30, 20253 min read


Queerness in Islamic History: The Poetry of Abu Nuwas
Did you know that one of the most celebrated poets in Islamic history openly wrote about same-sex desire over 1,200 years ago? His name...

Shams Tabrez
May 30, 20253 min read


They Said They Supported Their Gay Son,Until He Brought Home a Muslim Boyfriend
The first time I met Avinash’s parents,I had already rehearsed a hundred different versions of how it might go. Would they be cold? Would...

Shams Tabrez
May 30, 20252 min read


Caught Between Two Closets: The Housing Struggle of Queer Muslims in Urban India
“Hum Musalmanon ko ghar nahin dete.” A sentence so simple, so casual, and yet so brutal. I’ve heard it before. So have many others like...

Shams Tabrez
May 30, 20253 min read


What Happened When I Wore a Hijab to Delhi Pride Parade
I wore it proudly. My hijab. My choice. My story. As I stepped into the colorful crowd, rang birange fashionable kapdon ka jhund , I was...

Shams Tabrez
May 30, 20253 min read


Gay bhi aur Muslim bhi? How is that even possible?
Being both queer and Muslim feels like living in contradiction, two identities that are constantly seen as incompatible, even...

Shams Tabrez
May 29, 20253 min read


Shams and Rumi, a tragic story of gay love, sorrow and pain.
Born in a wealthy family, Rumi was a noble man and a respected Muslim scholar whose family had close connections with the king. He was...

Shams Tabrez
Jun 8, 20244 min read


Sarim: A muslim person who sacrificed their Queer identity, to survive in a rural area.
Picture a super hot school day, the first one back after the summer holidays. I was busy doodling when out of the blue, someone's...

Shams Tabrez
Jun 2, 20243 min read


A battle for love, The Heartbreaking Journey of Gay Men in India, struggling to find True Connections.
Huzaifa, a 35-year-old gay man residing in Noida, India shares his heartfelt experience, as the ticking clock reminds him that time is...

Shams Tabrez
May 22, 20242 min read
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